Finding A Soul Mate Relationship After Lifetime of Searching
At the time I had my Alchemy session, I was a 47 year old woman who had never been married and who, for the past 10 years, since breaking up with a former boyfriend with whom I lived for ten years, had not had a single satisfying relationship.
I considered myself to have all the right attributes. I was attractive, witty, charming, intelligent, funny, sexy, playful, sensitive, and very romantic. yet the men I dated--though they did seem to acknowledge these qualities - didn't seem to appreciate them.
My problem had always been to get the man to be as interested in me as I was in him, to get him to want to be with me in a way that was fun and cooperative, friendly and sexy, and romantic and intelligent. I could have these kinds of relationships with girlfriends, but it seemed that when it came to men, if they did want to be with me, they spent their time tormenting me by just behaving insensitively. or, more frequently, they didn't want to be with me in any committed or meaningful way. This was such a pattern that I started to think that there was something wrong with me and since I couldn't figure out what that was, I began to think I was cursed, destined to be tortured rather than fulfilled by relationships.
The men I dated were callous, uncaring, insensitive and shallow. I was probably too good for most of them anyway, but I clung to them because they were all that seemed to be out there. After ten year's worth of disappointing relationships, I began to think that perhaps I was either choosing the wrong men to date, attracting the wrong men to date, or doing something to illicit their bad behavior.
Because I was so unhappy with my personal relationships and because regular therapy didn't seem to help, I decided to try something that seemed more radical. I had met Jerry Zeiger, an Alchemical Hypnotherapist, at a party several years prior and I felt like maybe it was time to use his services. Yet I was reluctant to do so. I spent the first 27 years of my life growing up in new York City and anything that resembled that California touchy-feely stuff was abhorrent to me to begin with. But I thought at that point. "What the hell!" I was too fed up with the failures in my life and truly willing to look for answers in places I failed to seek before.
After Jerry helped me get into a hypnotic state, he took me on a journey, to help me get in touch with my inner mate who would guide me in discovering and then finding the man who would be right for me. We went on a literal journey into an urban New York neighborhood similar to my early 20's home in the east village and found my inner mate with whom I had a conversation that was facilitated by Jerry. I remember the wonderful warm feeling of being deeply loved. When I emerged from my hypnotic state, I was relaxed and had a good feeling of well-being. The results of the session were clear: I was more honest and clear about who I was and what I wanted I was no longer interested in trying to impress a man, just ready to be me. I also became clear as a result of the session that I really wanted a committed relationship. I could stop sabotaging myself. However, I wasn't a believer that something different or wonderful had happened. Only later, when I fell in love did I realize that it had worked a miracle in my life.
I am the head of an English department at a public high school. I had a crush on the principal for the year and a half he had been principle of our school. Although we had always had good rapport, immediately after my session with Jerry, our relationship took a turn for the romantic. While I had always gotten involved with men that weren't quite right for me. Ron seemed to be
perfect for me because we had so very much in common and because we enjoyed each other's company so much.
I went out with Ron on our first date on January 13, 1998, one week after my session with Jerry, and that date never ended. We've been together for exactly one year and two weeks now and have never spent one night of that time apart. I unofficially moved in on April of 1998 when I sublet my apartment to Ron's daughter and I officially moved in on November 1, 1998 when I gave up my apartment altogether. I love my relationship with Ron because it's based on love and mutual respect. We spend everyday together, yet we don't crowd or suffocate each other. We have a very nice life together and I have the relationship I have always fantasized about. We've now been happy together for over a year.
I don't really understand the role that hypnotherapy played. But I had the same problem finding a good relationship since I started dating when I was thirteen. Shortly after my session with Jerry, I not only found what I consider to be the right person but am able to maintain a very satisfying relationship with him. I know my life was transformed and I do believe - because I had tried everything I could think of to change my life prior to this experience - it was the hypnotherapy that transformed me, allowing me to find and maintain the relationship that is truly right for me.
Jerry Zeiger -Loretta K
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